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Stimerific

Summer, for our boys, is winding down. We have three weeks left of our “carefree” days and relaxed schedule. Well, considering our family, we have about week left of that. It takes about two weeks to re-establish school year routines and such.

I have noticed that as our summer has gone on, and as ESY has ended and therapists are off for their vacations, Tate has become more and more stimerific. He’s flapping a lot more. He’s doing his little dance more. He’s pacing in front of the TV as old favorites like Max and Ruby or Octonauts play. He’s squeaking and watching fan videos, and has even returned to watching his beloved Wow!Wow!Wubbzy videos on Youtube. I am not complaining, because, well, as he stims, he is keeping himself calm. He is not melting down. He is not regressing (too much) in terms of other areas like speech or motor skills. He’s trying to find his happy place.

Today Tate spent about a half an hour outside playing with the hose. Watching him with water is mesmerizing. He has a definite pattern of how he plays. He starts in the corner by our chimnea. He flushes it out and watches as water streams through the grates. Then he sprays down my plants. (Sadly, my jalepeno plant was a casualty, but we’ll live.) After those are sufficiently moistened, he walks over to the edge of the patio by the family room sliding doors. He has a piece of firewood that he pulled out of our pile. It has a hole. He has eroded a bigger hole as he forces water into it at full blast. Once that is accomplished, he waltzes over to the center of the patio, and acts like a sprinkler. He twists and turns and sprays down almost everything in his path. Today he was whipping the hose like he was Indiana Jones. I was amused. He was incredibly happy. Squealing and scripting to his heart’s content.

As I type, he and Cole have pulled the cushions off of the couch in the tv room. Cole is trying to play hot lava with him. Tate would rather jump on my poor cushions and flap as he does so. The movement is soothing. It keeps him grounded. Cole is a bit frustrated…but he’s handling it quite well.

My stimerific kiddo is finding his way right now. He’s really trying to hang in there until our schedule gets back to a more predictable pace. I hope that we can keep the stims going until then. Only 25 more days. (Now I must go make sure no one breaks his neck while avoiding the hot lava…or doing a jumpy stim….)

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Show-ow-ow-ow-er

When I was a kid I remember watching sitcoms where they’d prank each other by flushing the toilet while someone was showering. Because I had sisters, we chose to fight with our mouths, not pranks, so I never dealt with this phenomenon…until now.

A two-bathroom upstairs home with a child with an obsession with water AND spinning is NOT a good combo for a relaxing shower. At. ALL.

I had to take a shower this morning. Had to. I told Hubz I was heading upstairs in a whisper. He-of-exceptional-auditory-abilities, aka, Tate, heard me. Of course, he had to come up, too. *sigh* We are on Code Red anxiety alert this morning, so I knew exactly what he was going to do…play with the toilet.

I spent 10 minutes darting in and out of the water stream. Hot, hot, hot…so I would turn it down…cold, cold, cold…and then back to a comfy temp…and then hot, hot, hot…ughhhh. Of course I had to shave my legs today…

I survived, but jeez, that shower was the furthest thing from relaxing. In fact, most showers at the House of Hope are a game of roulette.

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