A family's story

Those of you who come around here often know my boys struggle with transition. It does not come easily for them, and it takes a lot of work and preparation in order to get them through some of the bigger ones. We have been prepping for the end of the school year for a while now..and we’re still not quite “there” yet. But we have to be…soon…because on Tuesday my boys will be done with 3rd and 1st grade.

I must admit, every year since my boys have been in school, I cry on the last day. I can’t quite explain it, but it’s an emotional response to my boys moving up and onward. Maybe the transition preparation is as much for me, as it is for them. 

I know that I am going to have tears streaming down my cheeks on Tuesday as I send them off for their last days. Both Tate and Jake have made progress and gains this year. Jake is doing math, people. Math.Something clicked this year, and he is finally able to do simple math without breaking down or turning into a puddle. He is reading chapter books. CHAPTERS!

Tate has made social connections to the peers in his class. He talks about his friends. He has even had a crush! He has spontaneously mentioned activities that have gone on in the classroom. He has told us about his day. And it is not a script. Six months ago, that wasn’t happening!!

So, you’ll have to excuse me on Tuesday as I wipe the tears from my eyes…tears that release the relief that we’ve made it–successfully–through another school year. 


Comments on: "End of the School Year" (5)

  1. I get it. Sometimes saying “I get it” doesn’t seem like enough, but i hope you read everything into it that I mean you to. I cry on the last day and the first day. Good luck next week.

    • Thank you, Deenie. I know that you you do get it. 🙂 Thanks for the well wishes…I will be a puddle tomorrow!

  2. Congratulations to your kiddos too! It is so wonderful to be able to see their progress.

  3. That is a lot of progress! That Tate is spontaneously telling you about his day – fireworks!! Yay! Remember this post when you get to feeling stuck. xox

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